The Moon from Arby’s
My view from my 45th birthday dinner… alone in an Arby’s in Yuma, AZ coming home from a business trip to SD
Kerry planned a nice weekend since I’d be on the road Monday, the day I turned 45.
iTunes right now:
“The Ocean” by Led Zeppelin.
Five more years and I’ll be 50. That’s the thought that’s been foremost in my mind.
It’s just a number. I’ve been told that by friends and family. My brother-in-law tells me it’s only halfway to 90, I like that.
So, what’s next? I have no idea. It’s not like there was an epiphany suddenly at 12:01 AM on the 2nd. It would have been nice, but nay, I woke up feeling the same as I did the day before that, and the day before that, and so on, and so on…
My mind still feels like it’s the first day of high school–but with an “I don’t give a fuck what people think of me” attitude… I suppose that’s the maturity and wisdom that comes with the years.
Cars: Candy-O
I was not a campus stud. Hell, I was 6ft and 160 pounds at graduation and was barely bigger than that after I graduated from ASU in ’86. My high school years were composed of me playing guitar in my room, making dungeons for D & D, listening to Rush, playing Star Wars over and over in my mind (no VHSs or DVDs then) waiting for the next installment…
Billy Joel: “Movin Out”
…writing my little stories and poems, dealing with an alcoholic father, handling crushes on Xavier girls I’d never ask out, reading books like Dune, A Separate Peace, Catch-22, All Creatures Great and Small, the Conan series…
The Pogues: “Lullaby of London”
…and I’d draw pictures, and fantasize myself as something better than I was; a hero, the guy who got the girl and saved the day. Not the most exciting life, I admit, but I wasn’t shunned. I think because of my ability to recite Monty Python sketches with inexplicable accuracy, as well as my novel fashion sense for a 1980’s high school kid: I wore cardigan sweaters and carried a pipe and Michelob mug to the football games (people actually asked if I had beer in said mug)…
The Doobie Bros.: “Takin it the Streets”
…And it’s not like I was an exemplary student either. I struggled. Algebra was tough… just not analytical I guess. If I went to math and science prison, I’d immediately have become someone’s cigarette bitch for the duration. I was placed in Honors English and continued that through senior year, although I never thought I deserved it. Socially, well… let’s just say on Monday morning while everyone else was talking about the parties and dances, I would be waiting for someone to ask me about the Love Boat/Fantasy Island episodes, and wether or not my popcorn and Dr. Pepper were up to snuff.
“I found the Love Boat episode to be quite erudite with Doc and Isaac being able to demonstrate the proper technique to reconcile vitriolic geriatric lovers. Sadly, the popcorn was past its prime and did not provide satisfactory snacking enjoyment.”
Flogging Molly: “Laura”
Some of the same high school angst and issues still pop up today, self-serving as they may be. How do I look? That seems to be the most prevalent thought. No one actually gives a shit whether or not my pants may be skating nanometers towards the high-water label, but in my still unrealized potential I focus on that minor discrepancy to my overall look. I mean really… but there it is…
Elvis Costello: “Ship of Fools”
…I see a mirror and the judgment gland begins to secrete its evil juice into my bloodstream causing self esteem gland to begin a negative self-feedback loop . Getting lost in a movie, a book, or music seems to be the only way to escape it and discontinue the loop…
Lyle Lovett: : “Flyswatter/Icewater Blues”
…so, I got that going for me. But, let me say that it’s not as bad as it used to be. It used to feel like I’d get the Spanish Inquisition every time I left the house.
Dropkick Murphy’s: “The Burden”
“No one expects the Spanish Inquisition! Our chief weapon is surprise…surprise and fear…fear and surprise…. Our two weapons are fear and surprise…and ruthless efficiency…. Our *three* weapons are fear, surprise, and ruthless efficiency…and an almost fanatical devotion to the Pope…. Our *four*…no… *Amongst* our weapons…. Amongst our weaponry…are such elements as fear, surprise…. I’ll come in again.”
Flogging Molly: “Tomorrow Comes A Day Too Soon”
“NOBODY expects the Spanish Inquisition! Amongst our weaponry are such diverse elements as: fear, surprise, ruthless efficiency, an almost fanatical devotion to the Pope, and nice red uniforms – Oh damn!” (Monty Python)
The Boss: “Jersey Girl”
So what does all this have to do with turning 45?
Plus ça change. Plus c’est la même chose.